Hi! I'm a newbie here. My husband of 18 years told me 3 weeks ago wasn't in love, not attracted to me anymore. I found out soon after, he has a girlfriend; she is a married woman with kids. He says he is in love and wants a divorce. We have to fix our 100 year old house which he has let fall into repair b/c he has been gone 80 hours a week, and that will take several months and need to sell for the cash and then divorce. He figures it will be October before we can divorce. We are living together until the house sells. He sees her almost every day, calls & emails her most of the time. Do you think their relationship will last? They are both runners so have that in common. What should I do? I have the divorce busters book and am halfway through it. Any good advice that I should immediately be following? We have 2 autistic children as well that I am concerned about. My husband has said that if not for this relationship he would work on the marriage, but he is, and he thinks they will not break up for any reason.
