The hasbend has exposed our D4 to his new GF without discussing it with me first. When all this started he made a very big deal about her not meeting people that we may be casually dating etc and discussing it with each other first and how to explain it to her. Now I have a small child crying and feeling insecure because "Daddy has a new girlfriend and doesn't love Mommy anymore and Mommy's going to get a new boyfriend too". This is every day. How do you deal with that?
I know I can't control him or his actions. I did confront him about this and he admitted that he had taken my daughter around this woman. But there was no "PDA"...Like that matters.
Anyway just a little rant/advice seeking session since I know a few of you are dealing with the BF/GF sitch...
Me: 30 EX-H: 37 DD: 5 Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC. Divorce Final 8/14/08. Trying to move on with new life.