Thanks piglet... that's the area I keep going left of center on. I can't control what she is doing. I have to keep the focus on the D's and me. If she comes around, great we'll see what happens. If she doesn't.. won't matter.. D's will be instilled with the best qualities.

You are right.. it's driving me insane to see her be this stupid. She wouldn't do some of these things before all of this. She is truly lost and doesn't want help from me being found.

I know this will all come crashing down on her at some point in time.

I'm sure it's the holiday's that are making this rougher than usual.

Thanks again all!!