Ok, he must still be totally in replay. I saw him the other night at a restuarant/bar in my town. He walked in with 3 people we are just barely aquantances with. He had his hat backwards and was acting all big and bad. He didn't even really say hi to the 30 other of our friends that he knew were there with me. At one point, he did come up to me and said "hi", I looked at him weirdly and said "hi" back. That was all! Later when I left he text me a message asking me: "are you mad at me". I didn't respond right away. later the next day I text him back: "I am not mad, I am simply letting you go". I was so scared to send it but every sign is telling me it was the right thing to do. He never responded to that text. Was it too harsh? Do you think it may make him realize that I am done dealing with this, as I have my own great life to live, & if he ever wants to reconcile, it will have to be him that gets his act together. I just feel like he has put me through heck and back in this last year and has treated me like crap for almost 3 years now. I just don't know how much more i can deal with, he just moved out for the second time and I am afraid of messing things up permanently, as I still hope that maybe someday again he will change his mind and want to work on our marriage. Thanks for listening, Tipper
