Everyone is right, it is not your fault. My sister in law taught me to just walk away when he would project and then it would stop. It was hard at first because I always used to feel the need to defend myself but she said nope, never do that, just walk away.
He made choices and he has to live with the consequences.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
