brava, I gotta admit that when you take the pressure off you really take it off! leaving the country for a year isn't just a big step it is a LEAP! Have you talked with H about any plans to stay in contact?
You are so strong and in control of your life, a shining example for those of us still struggling. 2008 will be great for you!
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.