Michael, I have to agree with the others on this. I think it is time to rock the boat a little bit and force the issue at hand. Our situations are so similar (along with many others on this board - especially Husband). It seems like we all go through these cycles of watching things turn around slightly for the better and then get our hopes dashed when we realize that the WAS never really had any intentions of working on the R. It sounds like you're doing a great job of detaching and GALing, so I think you'll do great in the new year whichever way this goes.
Let me know when you want to get together for a drink. I'm sure we could both use one.
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I know how you feel. It hurts so much knowing what this was going to do to my son. We were home alone yesterday and I could hear him singing in his room....... But I did not break this marriage... I am trying to fix it.
I had a great weekend with my son. I spent the afternoon with him at his friends house on Sat. and took him to the motorcycle convention yesterday. Tucking him into bed last night, I told him that I had a lot of fun with him and he told me that the motorcycle show was great. He always amazes me at how compassionate and thoughful he can be. It tears my heart out wondering what this whole situation will do to him and his sister.
