heard from the guy who ex contacted before christmas, he said that when ex phoned him back to see if he would drop presents of for son that he told him he didn't think it was a good idea to drop his son's presents at their house for friend to drop off here, he didn't tell ex our new address because he doesn't know it only his wife does and she was out. so ex contacted an old friend to ask him to do his dirty work for him his response was, "well I should have expected that from her, this is what I am up against" so now he is making out that it is me I am still the reason of all this, I am the one stopping him contacting and seeing his son, it is still bloody me, after two and half years it is still me, it is my fault he threw me and son out of our home, it is all still my fault, when is he going to wake up and realise he is the one that as done wrong and it is his fault son doesn't want to bother with him, If son wanted to he would pick up the phone and call him or he would go visit him he is old enough and no one is stopping him, but he doesnt want to at this time. I guess it is because he feels so guilty at throwing us out of the house he is trying to get friends to feel sorry for him and do his dirty work, I don't even think he can face son let alone make it up, how can you look your kid in the eye after all he as done. suppose that day will come around some time but I can't see it happening anytime soon, as they say when he does want to and really wants to he will contact and see son no matter what or who gets in his way.
