I'm sorry gg...I know this must have been tough to hear.
I don't have much to say, but one thing I know from reading these boards...tons of WAS types say it's over, I'm sure it's over, I'll never feel differently, I've thought about it forever and know it's right...but sometimes it does change and they really do change their mind, though it certainly will still take a lot of time and patience and dealing with the roller coaster ride. You say you're not ready to quit yet, so don't...I've heard the same, it's over, I've made up my mind, no amount of thinking will change my mind...I'm not ready to give up yet either...as long as we're willing to fight for our M there is still some chance, once we give up it's over. So as long as you aren't ready to quit, that the M is still worth fighting for, keep it up. Take care...
Me: 43 W: 41 Together 2009, Married 2011 Sons 10 and 6, Daughter 5 Bomb 2/21/21. W moved out 10/2021