I would think the fact that your W mentioned putting out that she actually considered it. I'm not saying she is willing, but at least she is thinking. I actually managed to perk a little interest from my H tonight before he left. At this point I think anything more than interest isn't a good idea as it would add to the confusion.
W has been a lot more open to more touching and flirting recently, but I know that if we get back to that sort of relationship, it's going to be a long time. It was the first thing to go, and it'll be the last thing to come back (maybe).
Funny thing is, when she said it and I smiled, she just said "Don't think about it - I need to go to the bathroom". Not exactly the "I hate your guts - You're never seeing me naked again" response I got from her a few months ago when anything remotely physical came up.
Originally Posted By: lizzy
By the way, you get a mushy awe from me for your response to W about the look on her face being thanks enough. I'm sure you were very sincere, and that was very thoughtful of you.
I said it with absolute sincerity and honesty - I think it came through to W.
W talked a bit about OM again tonight too. Mostly she was very critical and was almost making fun of decisions he makes. Sounds like a line of BS to me, although I don't get why she would feel she has to hide anything - We've been separated for two months and she has made it clear to me that she doesn't want an R (even though her actions suggest otherwise). Of course, she says she doesn't want an R with anyone, so she's obviously full of crap.
