I would think the fact that your W mentioned putting out that she actually considered it. I'm not saying she is willing, but at least she is thinking. I actually managed to perk a little interest from my H tonight before he left. At this point I think anything more than interest isn't a good idea as it would add to the confusion.
By the way, you get a mushy awe from me for your response to W about the look on her face being thanks enough. I'm sure you were very sincere, and that was very thoughtful of you.
