Quote: I don't know LL, now I'm just rambling. My BIL had a romance with a co-worker that never got physical so it IS possible.
that's a comfort...
I have let h know in many different ways that it's ok to tell me...that if he did "something" it would be best to tell me now...lest the guilt be so much that he has to leave me or eventually tell me...so why not now??
h says there is no more to say...
I dunno???
from what ow had said (before it got to the point where they were going to attempt to persue a r with eachother) "we know we are capable of being friends, that doesn't mean we are capable of having a r" ow also said " if your going to be physical you get a d" ow has said "I know you'll never believe us" so I dunno??? I can't immagine that they didn't at least embrace passionatley upond disclosing their feelings for eachother...but then again...maybe they didn't...will I ever know for sure??? probably not....in the end will it matter??? only if something really did happen.
