exactly. the fun will be gone and the reality sets in. that's when they realize the grass is NOT greener on the other side. H is uncomfortable around the house sometimes, even in piecing. He is not relaxed but trying to please me, or not get caught checking his email (to OW, I am sure). I am turning a blind eye now as I am giving him sometime to wean her off. But just like you, I feel the love is slipping away. I keep thinking the day my love vanish, it will be too late regardless of whether he is still contacting Ow or not.

LO, at this point, your H does not deserve you. You did what you can do, he still chooses the other path. His loss. You are a great person, just like others said. You deserve better. Happy New Year!!! And like my MIL just told me, "love yourself"