Dear Tostada, I have just skimmed a few of your early entries and then moved to your situation here, so I apologize if I miss pertinent points.
My question - your W's need to convince you that you are "the wrong person for her" makes me wonder if she thinks you just "don't get it yet" (that she is through with the M). And, if so, what possible behaviors, conversations, questions, etc., may you be doing/saying that might be motivating her to make sure you know she is done?
Tostada, I am not assuming you are doing anything that could encourage her negative remarks, but I want to make sure this got thought through a bit. Thinking this through also might help you decide how to go a bit dark as well.
By the way, it sounds that you have definitely made some good changes that she noticed! Even though they haven't taken you where you want to go YET - it doesn't mean they won't have a visible, positive impact in the future, OK?
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