LFL give a homework assignment to your H. Tell him he has to read the following forum.

http://www.takeninhand.com/
Women want unstoppable men http://www.takeninhand.com/node/291
Reader discussions forum http://www.takeninhand.com/node/1958

TIH tour http://www.takeninhand.com/tour

Other women want more than you want. If you are not into the punishment stuff, lots of guys will do everything but the punishment.

Then again the whole TIH web site turns you off.

Lou