Pfroglady, thank you so much for responding to my posting so quickly. I hope that one day I will also be able to get past this. My H has told me he told the OW to stop calling him and he said all he can do right now is "tell" me that it will never happen again. He said that he never thought he would be this kind of person and he dosen't want to be that person ever again. He says it's no excuse for what he has done but all that time on the road all those years he never felt married. The problem is that because he has done this it has made him doubt his love for me. So,I have no control over the situation. He says he wants to stay and try and make things work. I just feel he should be doing everything he can possibly think of to make it better but he dosen't seem to know how. The good thing is, is that we have a wonderful therapist and my hope is that she will be able to show him the way. I am so glad I found this site. It's comforting to have this kind of support. I'm glad you are having a better time of things and I wish you happiness always. Thanks so much again...NikkiNY
