Well, I think H is a little calmer now because he got paid. He seems to panic when he is running out of money.

Today when H came over, I made myself scarce, as DB C suggested.

H seemed to stay a little longer. I came down to make dinner. He looked at it longingly (and he was the one who used to complain endlessly about my inability to cook). Then, busy MLCer that he is, he took off.

Not much to report. I am not looking as if I am ignoring him but neither am I trying any more.

Talked to MIL today. I think they are coming back out to help H w/D in January. Each time H drops hints that indicate to me that they are helping him get D. They will pony up the money and all that, I think.

But I am still having trouble looking him in the eye.

Last edited by breton39; 12/31/07 12:12 AM.

M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D