All in all it was a pretty good DB time over the holidays. W had a fight with her SIL and Mom about watching the kids overnight on occassions. They know about OM and her M is not happy -- although she is of course her M and she will watch the kids for her.
We had dinner and breakfast out with the kids and did some shopping. I think we ALL had a good time, I was on my best DB behavior and had a lot of fun being around the kids. I hope that will give her reason to reflect on what is important in life...