Jeez LL, again we're on the same warpath. So much of what you say resonates with me:
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the only 180 I can see for this instance is for me to just not care anymore..thing is when I just don't care anymore what will be left???
I don't know if I should be posting anything to you 'cuz, like I said, I'm feeling pretty much the same way, and I don't know what good it would do...

Perhaps each of us just need to do our own thing for a while. Interestingly enough, when I pretty much ignored my W yesterday, she seemed to be drawn to me (a little). What happens when you've taken this approach? Does your H seem to gravitate towards you a bit more? Thing is, it seems as though each of us are there for our S, yet they are not there for us!

I'll shut up now...

jethro