Let me see if I got this right...I come on here looking for advice on how to fix a f*ck-up from 8 months ago, to try and save my marriage and I pretty much get my ass chapped about how I could do this blah blah blah....And then we have a similar position about to happen that might tear apart a marriage and we hear "A woman's got to do what a woman's got to do?????????"
I think my comments to the two of you were very consistent. Adultery is mega-dysfunctional-monkey behavior although the motivation is quite understandable. When you enact that sort of mega-deception you are mostly just lying to yourself about your unresolved dependency issues. If you came on here and posted that 8 mos. ago you told Miss IC "I'm sick of this no sex sh*t. I'm going out to the bar to get laid." my only problem would be figuring out why you still needed to join this BB.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
