update - just received a text of H that said 'he was aware that I didn't have to invite him for tea, but thank you'. I replied and said I I knew I didn't have to, I wanted to and thanked him for coming. He replied he had thoroughly enjoyed it. (He was quiet, so I thought he was feeling uncomfortable, so i'm pleased he said that).
Jen, being catching up with your sitch. You did have similarities in your R eg didn't know what the problems were that you were dealing with. Lack of communication. I didn't get to the bit where H decided to leave and then decided to come back again?
Off to bed now to read the re-read that chapter about monitoring results..
XE
P/A confirmed 5/03/08
03/08 H said affair over, I dont think it is, h still doesn't want marriage
T: 13 M: 8 D:20 & 17 from Previous M S: 8 & 4 BS: May 07 ILYBNILWY S: 13/10/07