I'm glad to hear that you are staying calm even when you feel like strangling him. It would be hard for me to contain. It's funny that your H doesn't see this as a choice HE's made. My H last night told me that he was sorry he can't make my dream of a family come true. I told him that he needs to use the correct word, it's not that he CAN'T it's that he WON'T. He was quiet. It's strange how they don't see what they have done and probably don't take responsibility for it. I know my H doesn't try to take any responsibility for it. He acts like it was totally normal that he walked out.
Focus on you. Have a good day with your kids.
M 5yrs 1st baby-girl born 6/18/08 Bomb: 10/13/07 OW - I was 6wks Prego H Moved in w/OW: 11/2/07 D Final 07/10 OW had his baby 3/17/09-so her Me, now - happier than I ever was with him