and this is different from your H ambushing you after the fact because....?

while i feel your pain, and live it over here too, it doesn't make it okay.

Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past.
See, I am doing a new thing! Is 43:18-19

If it seems slow in coming, wait.
It's on its way. It will come right on time. Hab 2:3

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