Called home tonight to talk to kids. W. answered. My blood pressure always elevates 20 points and my stomach does sommersaults. Imagine that? The woman I used to love with all my heart does this to me.
She asked if I had looked for financial aid for D17s college. I told her that D17 may have to go to Community College Her response: "That's a terrible idea. She can't live at home". So here we go again. Of course, another terrible Idea rfom FLTC. Just another in a 20 year succession. Ugh. It's SO frustarting. But I did recover in about 15 minutes. I have really decided it's over. She proceeded to hand the phone to D15 using the "divorce vernacular" "It's YOUR FATHER", not it's Dad. I still refer to her as "Mom" to the kids, not YOUR MOTHER. Just another brick in the load.