I was just reading your last post and my heart goes out to you. This IS really hard- standing for your marriage is hard, especially when our spouses are convinced that it is all over and are throwing their stuff at us (at first my H told me he had to find another woman because I didn't style my hair the right way- they say ridiculous things to justify themselves!)
Only you can decide if you are done with this. If it is really over for you, then you can move on. Maybe your H is right and your M is really over.....but.... BUT maybe he is wrong. Maybe he is riding his rollercoaster and saying anything he can to justify his behaviour and blame you for his pain. Only you know whether you want to continue with this, or if you are ready to move on. Either way, you need to make the choice.
Is it worth carrying on for a little longer for you?
OD.
Walk on, walk on, with hope in your heart. And you'll never walk alone.
