Talk to you guys! Actually, most of the officers I know here do subscribe to the addage "lead by example"...actions do speak louder than words, so when they see two officers in the Tower, it shows them you'll "put up". I wsa wondering where you were! My PMA goes up and down. When my FIL sent me the pictures of my kids when they were 4 and 5, it nearly ripped my heart out. So it goes in waves. Sleep here is hard to come by, anyway, but the silence of the dark nights is my PMA enemy! Happy New year!