I don't get it LL, what are out H's gaining by not putting in a little effort to fill our physical touch love tanks?
What do they have to lose? A quick grab from behind...a nibble on the neck, a GOOD kiss, a wink, a "hey, you're hot!", ...these are not huge things are they???
And what do they have to gain? LOTS! Much happier and less resentful W's. Sigh....
Funny you should mention that whole ILY but I'm Not ILWY thing. When my H told me that, I think he thought it was the worst thing he could tell me, wrong! Did he honestly think that I'd retained that "in love" feeling after all these years of neglect???
But like you, I chose to love, and to honour my committment.
Oh well, perhaps we can trade tips on what works for us in this "delicate" area of our M's.
