What happens when your room is finished, CL? Is there a way to stay sleeping in the same room? You still have that hurdle of intimacy to get over, but I am sure you will... in your own deliberate manner. Seems like that is a key to move your relationship a step in the right direction.
Has your wife resigned yet? Job hunting is NOT fun....she'll probably need even more support than usual (at least I find it stressful!). Expect a range of moods!
Will you and your wife be dancing together on New Year's Eve? I wish you a fun filled evening and look forward to hearing of great progress in 2008!
