Loose, its like they want freedom, but any action taken for that freedom (parenting plan in place), they fight. I don't know why....its what they want. The push/pull thing isn't healthy. I told H just last night that if we don't work together, we are going to ruin what is left between us. Meaning, we are trying to remain cordial and this bitterness is eating us alive (we are both bitter).

The anger. I hear ya. I can't even look H in the eyes right now. If I did, he would see immense disappointment staring at him.

Glad you talked to your mom/mum. ;\) It always helps to vent. Hope you have a good Sunday.