Quote: Has your H read Sex Starve Marriage? I sure hope my H picks it up soon.
ya he picked it up...when I threw it on the floor sunday night...after trying to be subtle about my desires...and having been told so many times...I'll be up in a while....I'll be up in a while...do you get it h???
I threw the book down on the floor...went upstairs alone...came back down...appologized (ya me appologizing for having needs and expecting him to uh! help out) then went to the store bought him butts and then went to bed...he did cuddle me told me to just relax...etc...but nothing!!
so h did pick up the book...but not to read it...don't think he even bothered to glance at the title he simply picked it up and put it on the counter with the rest.
that was that...it's now friday and I'm at the point where I almost don't even want him to initiate anything...cause then it's on his terms...and not mine!! when he wants it...when he's in the mood...
if I knew what made him in the mood I'd do more of it...but there is no pattern...can't even connect it to the moon or anything..not what I'm wearing...cause I could be dressed nice and be ignored...I could be dressed like a slob and be advanced at...it could be morning...it could be night...it could be afternoon...it could be the third wed of each month...I don't know???
I do still wonder...did he ever make an advance physically toward ow in a sexual manner??