I don't know about guys aren't affected after seeing their W's. I seem to get depressed and think about our sitch for a day or two after seeing W. Maybe we're better at hiding our emotions and not letting them show. I see were the call it a roller coaster ride, lots of ups and downs.
It's great you had a good time at dinner with friends, just one glass of wine? You had told me about you're Weds letters, I had thought about doing that also, it would be a reminder of all the good times we shared.
It would be a kick in the pants if H had to borrow money from OW to buy you your gift, think it might cause a little friction? I know I would be upset if W borrowed money from me for present for OM, I don't think there is a OM. It would be like I bought it for him. How much does a lump of coal cost, LOL.
Mike
M 51 W 49 S26 S25 D24 D19 Married 27 yrs T over 30 S 7/12 D-bomb 9/26