Thanks TAL. I've not had the unload on that situation yet. I will.. just waiting for the right time. I have mentioned that there have been "issues of concern" to my L, and we will discuss restrictions.

I also believe she is or has been with some other people.

The discussion about the time with OM and his kids came up. She again defended with "They are friends at school" I said OK.. what happens if I start dating someone from school? She was shocked and said "Really?" That was the end of it though.

Anyway.. one other funny thing was that I've continued the "Going out and girls will be there" stuff and the last few get togethers, she's been "looking" for gifts from another woman. She actually asked about the moonroof visor on the car.. I had that put on when WE bought the car 2 years ago. Goof.

Our Anniversary was Friday. I got her a Thank You card.. thanked her for the D's. She thanked me for the card. I got nothing (expected). Not a thank you, not a "you too" nothing.

Yet another reason I'm sure she has no interest in me whatsoever.

TAL.. you are also correct.. I don't deserve this crap. I want to make a list and commit it to memory. All the things I'm glad to be rid of with her.

She keeps making that list longer!!

This is why I'm counting down to 08. I've made some last ditch efforts to turn her around. They've not worked. So... 08 will be complete turnaround for me.

Last edited by jarhead; 12/30/07 02:38 PM.