Yes, that could very well be, let him wonder, its a just a small taste of what you have edured for how long.. He sounds like a very weak person, and you are better off without him if this is what you would be living with. You are stronger and I think you have crossed the threshold of being under is spell (so to say)..
You are a great person, and you will find someone who will appreciate you
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Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.