I gave h my idea of the parenting plan today when we met to handover d. It was at the beach and d had gotten some snorkeling gear for Chrissie and he went and bought two new sets, one for him and one for me.
Anyway, apparently, me giving him the parenting plan was "a great way to ruin what could have been a lovely afternoon"
??
As far as I was concerned I was just there to pick up d. He was the one to invite me to go snorkelling, he was the one to go and buy the extra gear (I didn't ask him to), he was the one that thought he was making the extra effort to spend time with me (which he was, but he's missing the point that I don't want to spend time with him! I'm still mad! He said his gf and her son were coming down later (I have no idea how late is later) and I truly didn't want to see them together.
I'm so over his crap.
I think it's all guilt talking/acting. If he can make things so that we can be friendly and get along with each other, then that will help him with his guilt of his betrayal of me. However, that is just thinking of himself. What about what I want and feel? I just want him to commit to having structure about seeing d and quit this push me pull you thing we have going.
