I waited around yesterday morning for H to call and let me know his plans. I finally gave up around 11 and decided to take the Ds shopping. There was something on sale that I had seen the night before and D15 wanted to get it. D10 was upset about going and I had to force her to go since H was not around. A few minutes after we left H called. I wish he would have been on the way to the house so I could tell him we were gone and he would have to wait around for us. He was calling to say he was going shopping w/ a friend(male). An hour later H called to say they were headed to another store. I said ok we were getting something to eat. Ds and I ended up spending a couple of hours at the mall and had a pretty good time. H showed up a couple of hours later. Ate something, spent some time on the computer then went and napped on the couch for a couple of hours. After he woke up he ate dinner then left a little while later. Not much quality time.
H did ask me about New Years Day. I told him that his dad invited himself over and I invited his mom. Said she wasn't celebrating and I told him I wasn't going to beg. H asked if I invited his aunt and her family. I said no I didn't feel like dealing w/ all that. Not quite sure why I should knock myself out for his family when he floats in and out of our home.
Today doesn't promise to be much better. We are going to church in the morning as a "family". No one at church knows are sitch. Then H will be going to his football game. He invited his mom who isn't going but not me. I wouldn't have gone but an invite would have been nice. I have no idea who H is taking.
