Quoting lostlove: I want h to want to sit with me.. I want h to want to put his hands on me even if in a non sexual way... I want h to walk up behind me and put his arms around me... I want h to run his hands through my hair... I want h to want me!!! why doesn't h want me unless he's horny???
Have similar problems with my WAW. Things have gotten much better recently - you can read my posts if you wish... but she still has a challenge with displaying affection in a physical way. And I don't mean sex.
I like to be held and cuddled. I like her to embrace me and just stay for a moment. I am a very "touchy" person. It's a long journey, I will tell you that. She is learning. Your H can learn, too... if he wants to. You cannot make him.