I had a problem with W and money earlier in my sitch, this is how I handled it.

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1196122&page=3&fpart=9

It may or may not help you.

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How does one lose this fear?


Are you prepared to lose your W (Yes/No)? Either way you act "as if"

Are you prepared to lose the money (Yes/No)? Either way you act "as if".

Just a thought.

Me:50
W: 49
T:20yrs
M: 14 yrs
D:11
2005 PA
2006: EA (2003 : 2007)
2007: April ILYBNILWY Aug PA, Sept Separate
2008: Feb Piecing
2009 Limbo
2011: Separated (same house)
2013: Divorcing