Women may come and go in your life, but your children will always be your kids. They love you and need you. Hang in there for them. Sadly, quite a few women out there have an awful lot of baggage and want to "be saved" more than truly love someone else. Chances are, nothing like that is going to happen quickly or smoothly. So for now, love yourself. Don't be vulnerable or blind. (although I don't really think you are... just a little reminder during a difficult time of the year...)
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There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
