Thanks also Saffie, I know it's a phase , it just sucks when it hits.
WAS32 I haven't read your sitch but I've trusted my h to be telling the truth many times now and all the faith I had in him to tell the truth was misplaced. I think it helps me to be angry because honesty is so important to me. h would likely say that I havent been honest with him. But I haven't been unfaithful and lied about it. If I've lied about anything, it's been about how hurt and angry I've been with him, and lying about my true feelings which were that the things he has done have been deal breakers and I just don't want to make him angry by telling him all bets are off - we are not getting back together.
