I don't think that you have that mad rush of loving feelings in a mature R. Sure, a flash here and there. But, i think the madly in love rush of chemicals in your body only happens for a sustained peiod during the intitial period of bonding.
Nevertheless, some things help. Difference, unique experiences, having a wild fling at a B&B... Crazy sex in the middle of the night...
Sounds like you are doing better than you think. Acorn
