ll, whenever i have gotten off track, you have steered me back in the right direction. thank you.

you are not silly for wanting your h to be in love with you even if you aren't sure you are yet either. if he expressed he was madly in love with you, i bet your in love feelings wouldn't be too far behind.

my h just recently realized it wasn't real love with him and ow #1. our c said last night it is defind as love by the two having an affair, but is not the love a husband and wife share. it sucks knowing my h loved another no matter what that means. it was feelings and passion and fun.

ya, ll. we just have to put it behind us. h and i are a little further along than you and your h. you will get there. and i wish i had a fling sometimes and had some fun while h was professing his love to ow. but i didn't. and i have nothing to feel guilty about. and you don't either!

how are the kids? my d has a terrible bug. we stayed home today. it snowed here last night! rainy and cold today. i think we will feel better when spring actually proves its here! lisa