ll, i don't know for sure how to fall in love again, i think it must be different for different couples. and really, the love your h felt for ow was never "lived" or tested. it existed in the context of an affair. not a mature reality based love. like you said you 2 have a deep love. that is real. how about a warm feeling to begin with? i get that now, and i have hope that i will once again have the feelings for my h that i used to.
doing things like when we were dating has helped and our c has helped a lot.
