Hello, Yes there is hope, my husband and I seperated after nearly nine years of marriage. After 7 months of seperation we divorced. Our divorce was final March of 05, I am happy to say that after all that had happened,(He was the one that left and yes, he did have an affair), On Thanksgiving Day of 06 we remarried. It was one of the happiest Days of our lives.
Although we remarried, we still had several issues to workout and over come. It wasn't easy but with love and support, weekly counseling sessions we were able to get through things.
We celebrated our one year anniversary this past Thanksgiving and we couldn't be happier. We both have matured and realize what it takes to make our marriage work.
Marriages quit working when the people involved quit working.
No matter what happens, keep applying the divorce busting concepts and heal yourself.
If you can't forgive and make changes within yourself, then your faults and your heartbreak will follow you into every new realtionship you have.
Remember you can't change people, the only person you can change is yourself.
