Good for you on the quitting smoking! I did in June. I used prayer and a hypnotherapy tape. It worked well instead of gaining my usual 35 pounds, I have only 10. That is bad but not as bad as it could be.
Angelica,
You comments about your H being a good dad before this...mine was too. S20 was upset with his dad today. They had made plans to meet twice in the last few days. He has backed out both time. First time because he forgot the things they were returning from Christmas because OW was sick the night before and he had to take care of her...oh please! Today he told him he forgot. S20 was so angry...he said I wish I could count on him like I used to. I want so much to tell him off but I know that I have stay back and let them work it out. He does this kind of thing to both of the boys.
Every time we think he is coming out of this MLC stuff, he does stuff like that and shows me he is still deep in it.
Everything happens for a reason, maybe Dad needs to find that it isn't better out there, he needs to realize how good he had it here. Maybe he will find God and that is the most important thing when he finds Him he will know he is supposed to come home.
