W still angry with me, but the intensity lessens

[Lanzo]

Hello All,

I'm doing ok, but it's tougher than my post suggest so don't feel that I don't need encouragement now and again.

Originaly posted by Pudmuddle snafu 11/23/07
When I noticed my H starting to warm up more, I experimented with giving him a hand squeeze or a light hug to see how he would react. Sometimes I would say 'Can we hug?' Or 'I could use a hug?' and he would say 'suuuuuuure'. Experiment with small things and see how she reacts. Don't take it personal if she doesn't like it, but that is a good way to test the waters.

Today W came back from the hairdressers and gave D6 a big hug, I said to W what about me, and she gave me a big hug (in a way that avoided a kiss) but a hug anyway. Felt really good.

So W no longer afraid to touch me, the alien appears occasionally but in the main W had been good W.