...I thougth if I held onto this house and continued to suffer, it would help him come home. I don't even want to come home here anymore. You see?
This is not being happy. Not for me, not for him, my dogs even suffer from the ancxiety of it all.
Sometimes a little hard work is good for the soul. God can only do so much for us, then we have to take over from there
I should have did this a long time ago!...
Jeanette, I think you sound convicted in selling the house. The house has no bearing on your R. A house is simply a house. If H won't come home because of the house, then the R would be built on a (ahem) house of cards.
I would say that God is giving you the conviction to act, i.e. to sell the house. Trust Him you wonderful lady!
Jeanette, I will add that your H saying to let him know if you need anything could be his way of saying "I want you to know I care".
Awesome posts in your thread! Thanks!
Me:56, W:51 D:26,S:24,S:22 Married:18 Bomb 9/27/06 Separated 11/27/06 Divorced 10/6/08 Leaving it up to God