He's been in counseling for 4 years now and he's changed his C recently after what happened. We've tried MC but he feels threatened when the C starts to address what is his part of the action plan and follows it up.
I am starting to feel he's one of those people that only realizes things when they have strong consequences. A professional coach told me once that only 1 in 5 people that are addicted to drugs recover. You know why? Because it's the one that survived to death. So they only recover when they see death.
I think I should comfront him too. I am trying to figure out how to do it, if we have one of those exhausting R talks or if I bring this to the table along with the strong consequences.
I was thinking is there any suggestions on something in the middle? Like a different way of an R talk?
