Plenty- We've done individual therapy. I started, asked him, he said no. Then a year later I told him I was done and handed him filled out D papers to complete. He found a C and then asked me to go-- individually to his. Yes, I switched- to no improvement. The C basically agreed with me and told him so in his individual session. She told him it looked like I had my life together and was ready to move on if he continued his life this way. We are supposed to go to this same women together- but he was to make the appointment. I go back to work on the 7th and as of yet, no word as to whether he followed through. I've decided I'm not making the appt. and I'm not reminding him. If he wants it he has to do it.
Trip- he never read the DB book. and I've never asked him to do KLA. I was going to but then realized that I still don't trust him. Maybe that's part of the problem. I still haven't decided if I want to trust him with "me". I'm tired of getting hurt by his words and the way he treats me when I do open up. And yes, I have talked to him about it again- he tried to justify his actions- I walked away.
Ian- thanks. You're right. He once told me that the man I married was gone and he didn't think he'd ever be back. Well, I don't like the new guy. I can't live with the new guy. I can't love the new guy. I think he needs to know that.
When life gives you lemons, trade them for limes and break out the tequila!!-- Soxfan2007
7/1/05 Bomb 7/20/05 H moves out 2.5 years of Rollercoaster 10/30/07 H moves back home
