Ok, Jenny....I have been sitting here thinking what I SHOULD be doing. I have been going 180 on him and pretty dark for the past month. During that time he is still talking with OW so nothing has really changed.

Do I go dark on him again?
Is it reasonable to ask for this NC with her if he wants to contact me?
I am just afraid that he will continue cake eating as long as I let him.

Me: 46 FWS: 36
Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07
Baby Girl born 3/08
Kicked him out because OW: 7/08
5/10 He realized what he had and lost.
Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!