I don't have any profound advice of my own, so I'm going to say what others have said to me. Only focus on the positives. They're little steps, but they are there. Have you made a list of the things your H would do if he was really reconciling with you? And remember, they have to be small signs!
If so, I bet him moving to be close to you would be a big one on the list. But he's moving in the right direction even if it is slow. I guess reconciling takes longer than you thing it should too.
But obviously most of what you were doing was working, so keep doing it and don't let yourself fall into old habits and insecurities! WAY easier said than done I know lol.
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Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2